Apr 1, 2026
In this episode of Love on Command: Porch Conversations with CJ, we are having one of the most fascinating conversations yet. We talk about reincarnation, the purpose of life, soulmates, and why so many people feel stuck, unhappy, or blocked from the love and life they truly want.
CJ shares such a unique perspective on what it means to be here in this human experience. We talk about life as if you are coloring your own picture—and what happens when you forget that you are the one holding the crayon. We also get into why people suffer, how they lose their way, and what it takes to remember who they really are.
Of course, we also dive into love blocks—because so many people say they want love, but their thoughts, beliefs, behaviors, and unhealed patterns are keeping them from receiving it. We talk about how to recognize when you’re blocking your own blessings in love, why so many people sabotage healthy relationships, and why getting the right help can change everything.
We also talk about soulmates, self-worth, persistence, healing, growth, and what it really takes to create the life and relationship you desire instead of settling for what life hands you by default.
This episode is deep, powerful, and full of perspective-shifting moments that will make you stop and reflect on your own patterns, your own healing, and the kind of love you are truly available for.
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Take your time with this one, because this conversation will give you a lot to think about.