Apr 14, 2026
In this Porch Conversation with CJ, we’re having a real, honest conversation about something most people don’t fully understand—love blocks.
I asked CJ a question that so
many women are silently struggling with:
Why is it so hard to love
yourself when you weren’t loved growing up?
And what he shared… changes everything.
Together, we break down how your thoughts, behaviors, and beliefs create a subconscious blueprint that shapes your entire love life. CJ explains why you can say you want love—but still not attract it—because your internal patterns are canceling it out.
We also talked about something
that really surprised people:
how your love blocks can
also affect your money.
CJ explains how the same beliefs that make you feel unworthy of love can quietly limit your financial growth—and why some high-achieving women can succeed in business, but still feel stuck in relationships.
In this conversation, we walk you through:
We also share powerful insights on manifestation, energy, and how to step into the version of yourself that already has the love and life you desire.
This isn’t about surface-level
dating tips.
This is about rewiring
your identity so your results finally change.
If you’ve been successful in life—but still feel stuck in love—this conversation is going to open your eyes in a completely different way.
👉 If this resonates with you, don’t just listen… take the next step. Begin your transformation at CJsLight.com.