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Apr 14, 2026

In this Porch Conversation with CJ, we’re having a real, honest conversation about something most people don’t fully understand—love blocks.

I asked CJ a question that so many women are silently struggling with:
Why is it so hard to love yourself when you weren’t loved growing up?

And what he shared… changes everything.

Together, we break down how your thoughts, behaviors, and beliefs create a subconscious blueprint that shapes your entire love life. CJ explains why you can say you want love—but still not attract it—because your internal patterns are canceling it out.

We also talked about something that really surprised people:
how your love blocks can also affect your money.

CJ explains how the same beliefs that make you feel unworthy of love can quietly limit your financial growth—and why some high-achieving women can succeed in business, but still feel stuck in relationships.

In this conversation, we walk you through:

  • What love blocks actually are (and how to identify yours)
  • Why “just love yourself” isn’t real advice—and what to do instead
  • How your subconscious drives you to choose the wrong partners
  • The “blueprint method” to release old patterns and create new ones
  • Why you keep repeating the same relationship cycles
  • How to start embodying the version of you who attracts healthy love

We also share powerful insights on manifestation, energy, and how to step into the version of yourself that already has the love and life you desire.

This isn’t about surface-level dating tips.
This is about rewiring your identity so your results finally change.

If you’ve been successful in life—but still feel stuck in love—this conversation is going to open your eyes in a completely different way.

👉 If this resonates with you, don’t just listen… take the next step. Begin your transformation at CJsLight.com.